Cathy + Tommy’s Chinese Fusion Wedding at The Sutherland: A Day Full of Meaning, Elegance, and Epic Outfit Changes

Let’s talk about a wedding day that had range. Cathy and Tommy’s celebration at The Sutherland in Wake Forest, NC wasn’t just stunning. It was a beautiful collision of cultures, traditions, and deeply personal moments that had everyone crying one second and dancing the next.

A Morning Steeped in Heritage

The day began with an intimate Chinese tea ceremony, one of the most heartfelt parts of the day and such a powerful nod to Cathy’s roots. Cathy wore a breathtaking qipao, a red embroidered dress that shimmered with golden thread and symbolism. Red represents good fortune and joy. Tommy looked equally dashing in his traditional changshan. The tea ceremony, held under the shade of The Sutherland’s oaks, was quiet, reverent, and emotional.

Each cup of tea poured was a bow to their elders, a thank you to those who raised them, and a blessing passed down through generations. Parents, aunties, uncles, and grandparents offered heartfelt words (and some seriously generous red envelopes), and it was so clear how deeply loved and supported Cathy and Tommy are.

Let’s just say the tissues were flying before 10am.

A Quick Change and a Whole New Vibe

After the tea ceremony, Cathy and Tommy shifted gears in the best way possible. Cathy slipped into a modern, sleek white gown that made jaws drop, and Tommy donned a tailored suit that screamed Bond, but make it emotionally available.

The transition from the morning’s tradition to the Western ceremony felt like two parts of the same story. The Sutherland’s historic estate vibe paired perfectly with both wedding styles. Its grand architecture brought old-world romance for the ceremony, and the lush gardens created a dreamy backdrop for portraits (which, spoiler alert, were chef’s kiss). Cathy walked down the aisle to music that gave everyone goosebumps. Tommy’s reaction? Pure gold. Tears, smiles, the whole rollercoaster. They exchanged vows that had the perfect balance of sincerity and humor, because yes, Tommy promised to always let Cathy pick the restaurant when they can’t decide.

Reception Goals

The evening turned up in the best way. There were tear-jerking speeches, epic moves from the bridal party, and a glow that lasted well into the night. Shoutout to the sparklers and Cathy’s radiant smile. More red made it’s way into the decor and LOOK AT THIS CAKE!

Cathy and Tommy’s wedding was the kind of day that reminds you why love stories matter. It was a celebration of where they come from, where they’re going, and who they are together. A blend of tradition and modernity, elegance and playfulness. Kind of like them.